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Peace vs. Peacekeeping | Understanding the Enneagram Type Nine with Jilann Carlson

Amy Wicks

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Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type 9  | Episode 3 of 4

Where do Type 9s get stuck, and how do they move forward?

In this episode, Amy and Jilann (a Type 9 and Wholehearted Coach for quiet leaders) walk through the four roles that show up in the Nine's journey: Victim, Villain, Hero, and Guide.

You'll discover: 

  • Where Nines get stuck in Victim energy (and why conflict feels like a personal threat) 
  • How Villain energy shows up as passive-aggression and quiet stubbornness 
  • What it looks like when a Nine steps into Hero energy and claims their voice.
  • The difference between being a peacekeeper (avoiding conflict) and a peacemaker (creating true peace).
  • The False Script vs. Voice of Love for Type 9.
  • Practical answers to real questions: How do I know if I'm actually a 9? How do I help my Nine spouse? What's the first step toward growth?

This episode gives you the framework for understanding the Nine's journey, whether you're in the middle of it or just beginning.

If you're a Nine, you'll hear that wherever you are in this journey, feeling unheard, struggling with resentment, taking your first brave steps, or learning to sustain your voice, you're exactly where you need to be.

You don't have to have it all figured out. Just take the next right step.

Your presence brings peace. You don't have to go along to belong.


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