The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast
Honest stories, sacred rhythms, and wholehearted identity for every Enneagram Type.
What if the Enneagram wasn’t just a personality tool, but an invitation to transformation?
Welcome to The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast: The Enneagram for Real Life with your host, Amy Wicks, a certified Enneagram coach, author, and “guide by the side.”
Each week, you’ll find faith-based conversations, personal stories, and practical wisdom to help you live with more clarity, compassion, and courage. Together, we’ll explore how understanding your Enneagram Type can transform your relationships, strengthen your family rhythms, and deepen your walk with God.
Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or ready to go beyond the basics, this podcast will remind you that your starting point doesn’t have to be your stuck point.
Because the Enneagram shines the light, but Christ is the transformation.
💛 Subscribe for episodes that blend faith + story + strategy and discover what wholehearted living looks like in your real, everyday life.
The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast
Peace vs. Peacekeeping | Understanding the Enneagram Type Nine with Jilann Carlson
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Wholehearted Enneagram: A Year Through the Types | Type 9 | Episode 3 of 4
Where do Type 9s get stuck, and how do they move forward?
In this episode, Amy and Jilann (a Type 9 and Wholehearted Coach for quiet leaders) walk through the four roles that show up in the Nine's journey: Victim, Villain, Hero, and Guide.
You'll discover:
- Where Nines get stuck in Victim energy (and why conflict feels like a personal threat)
- How Villain energy shows up as passive-aggression and quiet stubbornness
- What it looks like when a Nine steps into Hero energy and claims their voice.
- The difference between being a peacekeeper (avoiding conflict) and a peacemaker (creating true peace).
- The False Script vs. Voice of Love for Type 9.
- Practical answers to real questions: How do I know if I'm actually a 9? How do I help my Nine spouse? What's the first step toward growth?
This episode gives you the framework for understanding the Nine's journey, whether you're in the middle of it or just beginning.
If you're a Nine, you'll hear that wherever you are in this journey, feeling unheard, struggling with resentment, taking your first brave steps, or learning to sustain your voice, you're exactly where you need to be.
You don't have to have it all figured out. Just take the next right step.
Your presence brings peace. You don't have to go along to belong.
RESOURCES FOR YOU:
Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wicks
https://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicks
Not sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquiz
Ennea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram
(free course + printables)
https://bit.ly/Enneagram101Guide
The Real History of the Enneagram Course
(use code AMY for 40% OFF)
https://bit.ly/EnneagramHistory
Should Christians Use the Enneagram? (Amy's book)
https://amzn.to/3VB9Prx
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